Recently a friend brutally pointed out the molds that started growing at one corner of my blog. Of course I noticed that. I just pretended not to. I'm not even going to give excuses. So here I am. Cleaning up molds.
On another note, can you have a crush on someone that you've never met before?
I was talking quite a lot to this guy I knew online recently. Everyday we are growing closer and more comfortable with each other. Everyday, we are sharing a little bit more of ourselves with each other. We talk about everything, and nothing.
I know it's stupid.
He's so far away. We haven't even met yet. I don't exactly know how he looks like (although I've seen a picture of him, but reality can be so different right?). He's coming down from KL on this weekend for work. He asked me out for dinner. I wanted to accept but kind of hesitant. Partly because I didn't want to lose that fantasy. And what if I really like this guy? I don't think I can handle long distance relationship. Can LDR really survive?
I've met people that had crushes on people that they never talked to before.. Met him if you want la.. no harm.. Good lucks.. =D
ReplyDeleteThanks. Meeting him it is!
Deletehappened all the time to lot of ppl..if u really like him, then meet him to settle down ur feeling..u never know till u see in person =D
ReplyDeleteYeah I suppose if we want to find happiness in real life, we have to break the barrier of the virual world. But it's very nerve-wrecking considering that real life could be so real and different from what we fantasized!
DeleteGo meet him and then decide rather than living in a fantasy. Virtual attraction is always fake. Even in reality we have to "get" to know that person in order to "be" able to love them. Whatmore is virtually. I know that feeling. It's a luxury at the moment but you have to face it. Seriously. Meet then see what are you gonna do. In any ways facing a problem always wins.
ReplyDeletecouldn't agree more.
DeleteNo matter how awesome something seems online, even if the conversations are amazing, but as long as you haven't actually sat down and spoke to that person face to face, it just isn't the same.
It could be a whole different ball game once u meet in real life. So just for it. Meet him.
Oops sorry... I meant 'just *go* for it' :P
DeleteNo matter how much we 'clicked' online, we might not be in real life. That is what I'm most afraid of. Hence the hesitancy. But I've decided to meet him. Can't live in the virtual world forever.
Deleteno harm meeting someone, but would be better if u get to know him more before meeting. LDR, personally, FAIL!!!!!! guess my methods are wrong, haha
ReplyDeleteI guess time is not on our side since he's coming down this weekend. But I think I'm going to meet him anyway and try to get to know him better face-to-face.
DeleteAs for LDR, we did discuss about it. Moving to fast? Definitely. I am not convinced LDR would work. He thinks otherwise and tries very hard to make me see that it would. I guess we'll see. Maybe we don't even like each other after we see each other! Yikes.
I think it is possible to have a crush on someone you've never met before in person. And I don't think there's any harm in meeting him. Could turn out to be something nice (:
ReplyDeleteFingers-crossed!
DeleteLet us hope that something beautiful would come out of it.
Yes, meet him (not necessarily mate him,ok?)
ReplyDeleteotherwise, u will be wondering "what if...?"
Hahahaha yes sir! Sex on a first date is a no-no right? Just making sure.
DeleteYeah don't want to live with the 'what if' and regret for the rest of my life.