Friday, May 25, 2012

Bigger guns = Tops?

I always wonder, is it true that in sex, guys with bigger pricks will always be tops, and vice versa, guys with smaller tools will always be bottom?

Most of the time that is the case in adult film. But does it apply to real life as well? Of course bigger tools will provide more satisfaction and sexual gratification to the bottoms. But what if a guy with smaller tool enjoys being a top too?

What I feel is that prick sizes are irrelevant to the positions. It's just that some less fortunate guys with smaller tool size may find it hard to find a partner that can enjoy their god-given gift. People say that sizes don't matter, it's how you use what you are given that matters. Skills are more important in bed. But still we are living in a society where sizes are constantly at the front of our minds. When you seek for casual hookups, be it from Grindr, Jack'd etc, the conversation on prick size would definitely come up.

I say it's time we stop obsessing about sizes guys.
(Of course it is easier said than done. Who doesn't want a bigger prick?)




10 comments:

  1. To my surprise, Size doesn't matter is well being practice already. Usually in the end it's how two parties are being satisfied. It's really the skill.

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    1. I think average is great. Something not too huge or too small. However, there are other ways to satisfy your partner when it comes to sex, so skills definitely come in handy. So practice, practice, practice! hahahaHaha....

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  2. hahahaaha...maybe..i dont have nothing to comment since im very noob in this field..let me ask the expert..TULS!!!!!where are u??haha

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    1. hehehe... memang the post was intended for all those sluts out there like me! I'm just curious as what others think, that's all. lollll..... I hope you don't judge us too harshly?

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  3. yeah the role has nothing to do with size. It's just the preference of the guy... like I know some tops that never want to be fucked. Similarly I don't see myself in the top role. I just really like the feeling of being 'handled' by another guy haha...

    Some tops have big dicks but lack skill. It ends up as just being painful and non-pleasurable sex. I hate it when I have to tell the top what he's supposed to do. Takes the thrill out of the whole thing. I like it when the top takes control and just does his thing and wows me hahaha.

    But sometimes some tops with smaller tools... even with skill also not as pleasurable. Unfortunately, once you have had a big dick up your ass, the smaller ones just can't compare. Honest truth.

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    1. I guess it has something to do with compatibility? Like whether his dick is compatible to your hole. It's true that if you are used to taking big dicks, then smaller ones just won't do anymore... less friction and all that. And it's personal preferances also. Some people are turned on by some amount of pain added to their sexual experiences. Hence, they want monster dick.

      So you need a top who is experienced who knows what to do, how to do it. I usually will pleasure my partner the way I myself would feel like being pleasured. So I think the partner should be perceptive enough to pick up some of the signs to make the sex enjoyable for both.

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  4. Think its the skill rather than the size... yes they do matter to a certain extend, but I think about 5.5 inch and above and bellow 7 for me is good... Too big can die... unless you are... I dono what to say...
    erm... but then, not everyone into anal... so I guess how much your mouth and hand can take matters as well? lolllllll

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    1. Hahaha..... I like how you are being so specific, got range all!! Ok, people with big dicks might feel being discriminated here. lolll... We are not against big dicks, just that it's how much preparation you make before entering, or how you enter, all contribute to whether both parties will have fun in bed.

      Yeah too big how to fit into the mouth righ? We'll be just gagging all the time, and that is both painful and uncomfortable. But some people managed to train their throat to loosen up, so that huge dick seemed to enter effortless. Of course I only see that in porn! lolllll

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  5. is urs small ? i dunno about others , but i know tuls is small lah . mine ok ok only

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    1. HahahHah.... what a question! You certainly aren't shy. I kinda like that!! Mine's average only. How do you know Tuls' small? You played with him before? lollll...

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